摘要：After all, the more valuable it is, the heavier the favor you owe. If your job position is sensitive or if it is a key position, i

在中国这个“礼”是很重要的，它是和“人情”挂钩的，收太过贵重礼物，会给自己造成一些人情负担。

In China, this "gift" is very important as it is linked to "human feelings". Accepting too expensive a gift can create some burden of human feelings for oneself.

另外，太贵重的礼物，实际上在暗中标好了付出的价格。

In addition, gifts that are too expensive actually have a price marked in secret.

毕竟越贵重，你欠的人情就越重，如果你的工作岗位有些敏感，或是本身是要职的话，就更不能收了。

After all, the more valuable it is, the heavier the favor you owe. If your job position is sensitive or if it is a key position, it is even more unacceptable to accept it.

因为你知道，礼物的意思是对方希望你能帮忙做什么，如果没有做，收了礼物，反而会结怨，出现更多问题。

Because you know, the meaning of a gift is what the other person hopes you can do for them. If you don't do it, receiving the gift will only lead to resentment and more problems.

不要随便收别人贵重的东西，无论男女，礼物越贵重，你欠别人的就越多。

Don't casually accept valuable things from others, regardless of gender. The more valuable the gift, the more you owe others.

如果一份礼物让你觉得还不起，让你不舒服，就应该拒绝。

If a gift makes you feel unable to repay it and uncomfortable, you should refuse it.

喜欢的东西，想要的东西，就靠自己的努力去获得。

What you like and what you want, rely on your own efforts to obtain.

来源：三月流焱