摘要:我觉得心态真的太重要了I think mentality is really too important心态好一切都会好Everythingwill be fine with a good attitude心态不好做什么事情都感觉不好It doesn't fe
我觉得心态真的太重要了
I think mentality is really too important
心态好一切都会好
Everythingwill be fine with a good attitude
心态不好做什么事情都感觉不好
It doesn't feel good to do anything with a bad attitude
所以呢
So
不要预知明天的烦恼
Don't predict tomorrow's troubles
也不要对尚未发生的事情担忧
你要记住
You have to remember
悲观只会让生活更加悲观
Pessimism will only make life more pessimistic
多给自己一些正面的心理暗示
Give yourself more positive psychological hints
把自己的内核变稳定
Make your kernel stable
所以你要允许一切事情的发生
So you have to allow everything to happen
只要你专注一件事
As long as you focus on one thing
并且抱着积极的心态
And have a positive attitude
好事一定会接踵而至
《被讨厌的勇气》中有一段话:
There is a passage in "the courage to be hated
只要不关注任何人的动态
As long as you don't pay attention to anyone's dynamics
不揣测任何人的想法
Don'tspeculate on anyone's thoughts
不去设想一些没发生的事情
Don't imagine something that didn't happen
简单点
Be simple
顿一点,慢一点
Feel a little better, take it slow
你会发现你过得很自在
我不预设对方是不是不喜欢我
I don't presuppose whether the other person doesn't like me
我不预设这句话是不是话里有话
I don't presuppose whether this sentence means something
我只跟对方进行自然的沟通
l only communicate naturally with each other
如果遇到什么问题
In case of any problems
那我就坦诚沟通
Then i'll communicate honestly
就事论事
Confine the discussion to the matter at issue
用行动极力解决问题
也不要担心对方会不会因为我的发问产生偏见
Don't worry about whether the other party will be biased because of my question
不惧怕坦诚沟通
Not afraid of frank communication
这是筛选的过程
This is a screening process
你坦诚
You are honest
留下的自然就是坦诚的人
What remains is naturally an honest person
这就是降低内耗的最好的方法
This is the best way to reduce internal friction
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