摘要：When you are a concave puzzle, diamond shaped, square shaped, or star shaped puzzles are not what you want.

听过一个“拼图理论”：

I have heard of a 'puzzle theory':

人际关系就像一张拼图，每个人都是其中的一个小块。

Interpersonal relationships are like a puzzle, where each person is a small piece of it.

当你是凹形的拼图时，菱形的、方形的、星形的拼图，都不是你想要的。

When you are a concave puzzle, diamond shaped, square shaped, or star shaped puzzles are not what you want.

最好的做法是从一开始就找到那个能跟你搭配的凸形拼图。

The best approach is to find the convex puzzle that matches you from the beginning.

话不投机的人，追求各异的人，不妨大胆一点，勇敢淘汰。

For those who are not compatible with each other and pursue different things, it is better to be bold and bravely eliminate them.

筛掉了不合适的人，才能把身边有限的位置，留给真正值得的人。

Only by screening out unsuitable people can we leave the limited space around us for those who are truly worth it.

“君子绝交，不出恶声。”说出口的翻脸是少数，悄无声息走远才是常态。

A gentleman breaks off friendship and doesn't make a bad sound. "It's rare for someone to turn their face and walk away silently, which is the norm.

看清一个人，不去揭穿他的真面目，不是因为懦弱，而是成熟。

To see a person clearly and not expose their true face is not because of cowardice, but because of maturity.

我走我的路，你过你的桥，我们此后不再是同路人，不再有任何交集。

I walk my way, you cross your bridge, and we will no longer be on the same path or have any intersection.

无需过多言语，及时转身、各自相安才是真正的清醒。

No need for too many words, turning around in a timely manner and settling down with each other is the true clarity.

淘汰并不意味着仇恨，而是一种理性的选择。就像一棵树在生长过程中会不断舍弃一些枯枝败叶，才能更加茁壮成长。

Elimination does not mean hatred, but a rational choice. Just like a tree that constantly sheds some dead branches and leaves during its growth process in order to grow stronger.

来源：三月流焱