摘要：In life, there are inevitably ups and downs, and reactions in the face of problems are the touchstone of a relationship.

生活中难免有磕磕绊绊，在问题面前的反应，是一段关系的试金石。

In life, there are inevitably ups and downs, and reactions in the face of problems are the touchstone of a relationship.

当错误已经发生，后果已经造成，一味地发泄情绪，指责对方，不仅无法挽回损失，而且还容易激化矛盾，让对方更加懊恼。

When a mistake has already occurred and the consequences have been caused, simply venting emotions and blaming the other party not only fails to recover the losses, but also easily exacerbates the conflict and makes the other party even more frustrated.

有句话这样说：在最无助和软弱的时候，在最沮丧和落魄的时候，有家人托起你的下巴，扳直你的脊梁，命令你坚强，并陪伴你左右，共同承受命运。

There is a saying that goes: In the most helpless and weak times, in the most depressed and destitute times, family members hold up your chin, straighten your spine, command you to be strong, and accompany you to bear the fate together.

那时候，你们之间的感情除了爱，还有肝胆相照的义气，不离不弃的默契，以及铭心刻骨的恩情。

At that time, in addition to love, your relationship also had the loyalty of mutual support, the tacit understanding of never abandoning each other, and the deep-rooted affection.

一万句“都怪你”，都不如一句“我陪你”。

Ten thousand words of 'blame you' are not as good as one 'I'll accompany you'.

人生在世，没有哪一个人的生活是容易的，哪怕是还未进入社会的孩子。

In life, no one's life is easy, even children who have not yet entered society.

最好的家风就是，家人之间相互理解体贴：我们虽然观点不同，但我支持你的决定。

The best family tradition is mutual understanding and consideration among family members: although we have different views, I support your decision.

困境时有人懂得，逆境时有人牵挂，绝境时有人理解。

Someone understands in times of adversity, someone cares about in times of adversity, and someone understands in times of desperation.

来源：三月流焱