摘要：Often, we place too much importance on what we gain, as if the meaning of life depends on these tangible achievements, unaware tha
Mindset Determines Your State
心态决定你的状态
Often, we place too much importance on what we gain, as if the meaning of life depends on these tangible achievements, unaware that such attachment can make us lose even more.
很多时候，我们太过看重所得，仿佛生活的意义就寄托在那些具体的收获上，却不知这样的执着反而更容易让我们失去更多。
In fact, gains and losses are the norm in life.
其实，有得有失，才是人生的常态。
By accepting gains and losses with equanimity.doing our best and then letting things take their course, we can encounter the most beautiful scenery on this unpredictable journey of life.
坦然面对得失，尽人事，而后听天命，我们才能在这起伏不定的人生旅途中邂逅最美的风景。
Some events, once they happen, become part of the past; some things, once lost, cannot be reclaimed.
有些事情一旦发生，便已成为过去;有些东西一旦失去，也无法再追回。
Given this, there's no point in lamenting over an unchangeable past. Your mindset determines your state.
既然如此，就不要再为无法改变的过去懊恼不已。你的心态，决定了你的状态。
When you learn to see everything lightly, a sense of release and peace will naturally fill your heart.
当你学会看淡一切，心中自会多一份释怀与宁静。
Every loss is an opportunity for redemption and growth, teaching us to cherish the present beauty and better handle future uncertainties.
每一次的失去，都是一次救赎和成长的机会，它教会我们珍惜现有的美好，也让我们更加懂得如何面对未来的不确定性。
Happiness is not measured by how much material wealth or success you have but by how much you can let go.
幸福从来不是由你拥有多少物质财富或成就来衡量，而是取决于你能看淡多少。
When we level our mindset and are no longer troubled by gains and losses, focusing instead on becoming a better self, we'll find the unnoticed beauty in life gradually revealing itself.
当我们放平心态，不再被得失所困扰，专注于成为更好的自己时，你会发现生活中那些不经意间的美好逐渐显现。
Life is short, there's no need to live for others' approval or lose yourself trying to meet others' expectations.
生命只有一次，不必费力活给别人看，也不必为了迎合他人的期待而迷失自我。
May you do your best in everything you do, walk each step of your path well, and live each day with intention, welcoming each new dawn with a peaceful heart.
愿你能够做好当下的每一件事，走好脚下的每一步路,用心过好每一天，以一颗平和的心迎接每一个新的黎明。
This way, you'll not only find your inner world becoming richer but also receive many unexpected surprises.
这样，你不仅会发现内心变得更加充实，也会收获更多意想不到的惊喜。
来源：景映皇城
