摘要：如果他没有任何问题的话,他应该离我远一点,因为他不是真的很抱歉

Hey

嘿

my name is Allison and my first relationship ended in a disaster

我叫艾莉森我的第一段感情以失败告终

with my ex Boyfriend leaking my very personal photos on the

我前男友把我的私人照片泄露在

Internets

互联网

my ex let's call him

我前男友让我们打电话给他

Jacob was a very nice guy at first

一开始雅各布是个很好的人

he was so funny and attentive and was always doing romantic things for me and it was sweet

他是如此有趣和细心，总是为我做浪漫的事情，它是甜蜜的

but then he changed well

但后来他变得很好

more like he showed his true Colours

更像是他展现了他的本色

he became very rude to me and was always arguing with me about everything

他对我很粗鲁，总是和我争论每件事

If I wanted to see my friends he would be very angry and upset

如果我想见我的朋友他会非常生气和不安

but he would go and see his friends who I hate it

但他会去见他的朋友我讨厌他们

almost every day I quickly realized that this wasn't OK

几乎每天我都很快意识到这样做不好

but I continued to date him for 3 months

但我和他约会了3个月

but then I said enough and broke up with him

但后来我说够了就和他分手了

I was very sad but it was the right decision and I thought it was over but it

我很难过但这是正确的决定我以为一切都结束了但

wasn't

不是

he started to text me about some photos I sent to him

他开始给我发短信说我发给他的一些照片

he said he would leak them if I wouldn't get back together with him

他说如果我不能和他复合他就会泄露出去

I got really scared and I didn't know what to do

我真的很害怕我不知道该怎么办

I started to picture in my mind how every one would see them and it was terrifying

我开始在脑海中想象每个人是如何看待他们的，这很可怕

I didn't want to get back together with him and I asked him several times not to do it

我不想和他重归于好，我多次要求他不要做这件事

but he continued to blackmail me the whole time

但他一直在勒索我

he was Texting me day and night and also calling me like 50 times a day

他没日没夜地给我发短信，还每天给我打50次电话

pretty stuff finally caved in and went on a date with him

漂亮的东西终于屈服了，和他约会去了

know what I was thinking

你知道我在想什么

it was probably just my fear or something

可能是我害怕什么吧

The date was awful the whole time

一直以来约会都很糟糕

he was trying to prove to me that it was wrong of me to dump him and that I was being

他试图向我证明我抛弃他是错误的，我正在

Egotistical

自私自利

And then he wanted to kiss me

然后他想吻我

but I said no

但我拒绝了

and he got so angry

他很生气

like so angry

好像很生气

he was shouting stuff at me

他对我大吼大叫

so I just hopped on a bus and left

所以我跳上一辆公共汽车就走了

then he Texted me and said it was my last chance to

后来他给我发短信说这是我最后一次机会

reconsider

再考虑一下

I said no and asked him again not to leak the photos

我拒绝了并再次要求他不要泄露照片

I blocked him everywhere afterward

后来我到处堵死了他

but I was scared because I didn't know whether

he posted them or not

但我很害怕因为我不知道他是否发布了

I soon found out that he

我很快发现他

In fact

实际上

did

曾经是

he sent my photos to his friends

他把我的照片寄给了他的朋友

and they were laughing at me while I was walking through the schools corridors

当我穿过学校走廊的时候他们嘲笑我

and were calling me names

一直在叫我的名字

I was ashamed but mostly I was afraid

我很惭愧但大多数时候我很害怕

they were telling everyone and showing my pictures and coming

他们告诉每个人展示我的照片然后就来了

up with terrible stories about me and all of them were completely false

所有关于我的可怕故事都是假的

I was terrified of how people were treating me and then

我很害怕别人对我的态度然后

I would see Jacob with his friends grinning so happy with himself

我会看到雅各布和他的朋友笑得那么开心

Of course

当然了

he was telling everyone that I deserved it

他对每个人都说我活该

I cried a lot

我哭了很多次

but I was still afraid to tell anyone

但我还是不敢告诉任何人

even my friends

包括我的朋友

although already seeing this stuff sometimes

尽管有时已经看过这些东西了

I just didn't want to go to school and didn't want to talk to anyone

我只是不想去上学也不想和任何人说话

but I couldn't tell my parents

但我不能告诉我父母

so I still had to go

所以我还是得去

I didn't want him to wait until everyone forgot

我不想让他等到大家都忘了

so I Unblocked Jacob and Texted him

所以我解除了雅各布的封禁，给他发了短信

I told him he should stop what he was doing and Delete everything

我告诉他应该停止他正在做的一切删除

because I had Screenshots of all of our conversations and I would show them to the police

因为我有我们所有谈话的截屏我会把它们给警察看

if he didn't stop

如果他不停止的话

he basically laughed it off and said I wasn't going to do anything

他基本上一笑置之，说我什么也不会做

because nobody would believe me even with the

因为没人会相信我

Screenshots

截图

then I knew that I had no choice but to confess to my parents about everything that had happened

然后我知道我别无选择只能向父母坦白所发生的一切

I asked my mom and dad to listen and I couldn't even start without tearing up

我让我爸妈听我说，我一开始就哭个不停

my parents got very worried

我父母很担心

but I finally told them my story

但我终于告诉他们我的故事了

it was really scary

太可怕了

seeing how angry my dad was

看我爸爸有多生气

he started shouting

他开始大叫

wanting to know how I could do something like that

想知道我怎么能做出那样的事

and then he was saying how he was going to punish Jacob

他还说要怎么惩罚雅各布

well

嗯

he didn't call him Jacob

他没有叫他雅各布

he used

他用

Another word

另一个词

I was full on crying at this point and dad was pacing back and forth through my room

我哭得满满的，爸爸在我的房间里来回踱步

my MUM on the other hand was more calm and was telling my dad to calm down

另一方面，我的妈妈更冷静，告诉我爸爸要冷静下来

and that we had to think of what to do next

我们必须考虑下一步该怎么做

after my dad calmed down a little bit

在我爸爸冷静下来之后

they started to think and I didn't know what to say

他们开始思考，我不知道该说什么

really

真的

it was like I really disappointed them

好像我真的让他们失望了

they decided to ask their lawyer friend about their options

他们决定向他们的律师朋友询问他们的选择

I couldn't sleep that night waiting for them to contact him the next day

我那晚睡不着，等着他们第二天联系他

finally they asked him and he was really shocked by everything

最后他们问他，他真的被所有的事情震惊了

Basically

基本上

he explained to us that if we decided to press charges

他向我们解释说如果我们决定起诉

it would take a lot of time and energy

这将需要大量的时间和精力

and probably money as well

可能还有钱

so Maybe we should figure out another way to solve this

或许我们应该另想办法解决这个问题

well

嗯

my parents contacted Jacob's parents and all of us met

我父母联系了雅各布的父母我们都见过面

it was so awkward

太尴尬了

his parents were shocked to hear about everything

他的父母听到这一切都很震惊

and my dad could barely keep himself away from Jacob

我父亲几乎不能让自己远离雅各布

Jacob was sitting there lost like a little boy

雅各像个小男孩一样坐在那里迷路了

trying to say that he didn't do those things and that I was lying

想说他没有做那些事而我在撒谎

and then the lawyer showed everyone the Screenshots and there was no way out

然后律师给每个人看了截图，然后就没有出路了

I have to admit that I was really happy to see him so scared after everything he had done

我必须承认看到他做了那么多事后我真的很高兴看到他那么害怕

so the lawyer said that Jacob had to Delete the photos

律师说雅各布必须删除照片

and everyone who had them in their possession had to Delete them to

所有拥有它们的人都必须删除它们

or else everyone would be in trouble

不然大家都会有麻烦

Otherwise we would have to contact the police and it was going to be very difficult for Jacob

否则我们就得联系警察了，这对雅各布来说很困难

he really did make sure that Jacob called most of his friends in front of us

他确实确保雅各布把他的大多数朋友叫到我们面前

and told them in a very shameful voice that they should Delete them

用非常可耻的声音告诉他们应该删除他们

or they would be in trouble

否则他们就有麻烦了

I was so happy but let's be honest

我太高兴了，但老实说

I can't really do anything with the photos that exist on the Internet

我真的不能做什么与照片存在在互联网上

my parents lawyer friend did everything he could but Yeah

我父母的律师朋友尽了全力但是是的

I don't know if anyone else still has them

我不知道还有没有人还留着

but at least Jacob got what he deserved

但至少雅各布得到了他应得的

my parents got over it but his parents took everything he had

我父母原谅了他但他父母拿走了他所有的一切

like his phone and they were also taking him to and from school

就像他的手机一样，他们也会送他去学校

I was still unhappy about every one knowing what had happened

我仍然不高兴，因为每个人都知道发生了什么事

so we decided to do something weird

所以我们决定做些奇怪的事

I wrote a post about the situation

我写了一篇关于情况的文章

owning up to what had happened and saying that it could happen to any one

承认所发生的一切，并说任何人都有可能发生

that we should be more careful and that we shouldn't try to reason with people like that

我们应该更加小心，我们不应该试图与这样的人讲道理

but instead seek help immediately

而是立即寻求帮助

people were very supportive of me

大家都很支持我

and thought it was brave of me to actually react to it in such a direct way

我觉得我很勇敢，能对它做出如此直接的反应

and one day

总有一天

Jacob came up to me and said he was sorry

雅各走到我跟前说他很抱歉

but you know what I said to him

但你知道我对他说了什么

he should stay away from me if he doesn't any problems because he wasn't really sorry

如果他没有任何问题的话,他应该离我远一点,因为他不是真的很抱歉

he was just scared

他只是害怕

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