摘要：哈佛教授乔丹·彼得森：不要轻易介入他人因果帮助别人最好的方法不是给他们建议The best way to help someone is not to give them advice而是要听他们的but to listen to them假设他们照你说的做l

哈佛教授乔丹·彼得森：

不要轻易介入他人因果

帮助别人最好的方法不是给他们建议

The best way to help someone is not to give them advice

而是要听他们的

but to listen to them

假设他们照你说的做

let's say they do what you say

获得了好的结果

and something good happens to them

这份功劳属于谁?

well whose victory is that

你的还是他们的?

yours or theirs

假设他们听从了你的建议

and then let's say they fail

但是失败了

following your advice

他们为此付出了代价

well they pay the price for that

但你可以轻松地跳开说

and you can skip away merrily and say

早知道我该说得更谨慎一些

well i should have spoke more carefully

所以别轻易插手别人的命运

it's like you don't

所以别轻易插手别人的命运

mess about with people's destiny

你不知道他们的人生会通向哪里

you do not know where they're headed.

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