摘要：记住，在每一个美丽的派对结束时，在每一个史诗般的时刻结束时，在每一个伟大的成功和每一个成功的公司结束时，你会发现，在你身边的人总是很少，但永远记住，这少数人是值得一切的人……

我爸爸曾经告诉我：你想知道谁是你的好朋友吗？

要找出谁是好朋友，就组织一个漂亮的派对，带上好啤酒和葡萄酒……

准备一些好食物，放一些适合所有人的优美背景音乐。大声播放，但不要太大，这样他们才能听到他们的对话，

邀请朋友，他告诉我，邀请很多人，邀请所有你认识的朋友。

然后当聚会结束时，让每个人走他们喜欢的路，

不要强迫任何人留下来，只是祝大家晚安，然后看……

仔细看看谁自愿留下来帮助你，谁帮你洗碗，谁帮你修理东西。

这些人会成为你的好朋友，当音乐和美酒耗尽时，他们会留在你身边……

好朋友是那些会一直陪伴你，即使你的生活只剩下残羹剩饭和一团糟的人……

最后，爸爸告诉我……

记住，在每一个美丽的派对结束时，在每一个史诗般的时刻结束时，在每一个伟大的成功和每一个成功的公司结束时，你会发现，在你身边的人总是很少，但永远记住，这少数人是值得一切的人……

My dad used to tell me: Do you want to know who your good friends are?

To find out who is a good friend, organize a beautiful party, bring good beers and wines...

Get some good food and have some beautiful background music that can accommodate everyone. Play it loud, but not too loud, so they can hear their dialogues,

Invite friends, he told me, invite many, invite all the friends you know.

and then when the party is over, let everyone take the path they prefer,

Don't force anyone to stay, just wish everyone a good night and watch...

Take a good look at who voluntarily stays to help you, who helps you wash the dishes, who helps you fix things.

These will be your good friends, those who stay by your side when the music and wine run out...

Good friends are the ones who will stick around, even when your life will only have to offer crumbs and mess...

And at the end of it all, Dad told me...

Remember at the end of every beautiful party, at the end of every epic moment, of every great success and of every successful company, you will see that there will always be very few people by your side, but the very few, always remember, are the ones who are worth everything...

来源：美国加州阳光